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The author of the book is a self-identified HSP and helped bring a huge amount of light to an issue few people discuss and fewer people understand. Her job requires her to read people, and she's darn good at it because doesn't just detect subtle changes in the body temperature and eye contact - she says she can feel what they are feeling. When I went through my own dramas at work, she felt all of that and it affected her.I think she wan't us to realize that to be called "highly sensitive" by another human being should never be given or received as criticism. As someone with a strong background in science, it was fascinating to learn about the research and history of primate society that has brought us empaths as a way to maintain social order. Even in the first few chapters I was able to look at Taylor and say: I understand why you insisted I buy blackout curtains now... Empaths are not just sensitive to the emotions of others. Empaths also need a huge amount of alone time for introspection, and regard their freedom as immensely important. Yet there is a wonderful propensity for empaths to care deeply.One thing that can be said about the narcissist is that they constantly try to seek validation from other people.
November 2015 I met one of the most magical girls I've ever met in my life. Dating her was one of most special periods in my life.
Most empaths are effective listeners, and have a tendency to gravitate towards professions in which they can use this ability to help others - social work, counseling, energy work such as Reiki, and the ministry, for example.
Others are often drawn to empaths, because they feel comfortable and relaxed when speaking with them.
Sometimes this is a matter of detecting energy fields or auras, other times, it may be simply a case of "knowing" that the person is feeling a certain way, despite no obvious clues to that effect.
In many cases, empaths have trained themselves to detect subtle changes in the energy vibrations of other people.